life lesson learnt

things have not been easy for me lately, i was too caught up with the idea of a perfect life, and when He decided to take everything one by one, I have no power to stop Him as He knows best.

my laptop broke down, i waited for weeks but then Alhamdulillah its aliveeee but new hard disc meaning its working like a brand new laptop. no old memories. later then my phone exploded along with the charger and everything, nothing can be done because the chemical from the battery ruined everything inside, also no memories left. as for now, im here with no pictures left of my friends, no contacts, no everything, but i have my friends. they can provide me everything back :)

one thing is that, if you think you have everything in life, know that one day you can wake up to nothing. dont get too attached to everything temporary because when its gone, you're gonna hurt bad. so enjoy everything while it lasts but dont forget to be grateful of everything you have and dont get too carried away.

but if He do take something from you, dont be sad because its gone, be happy because it happened.
He, Allah knows best as He is the best Planner.

A visit to Rumah Seri Kenangan Cheras

Assalamualaikum!

So a few days ago, the Student Representative Council along with 22 other students of Kolej MARA Kuala Nerang paid a visit to Rumah Seri Kenangan in Cheras.

As soon as we reach there, we started the day with some simple exercise like some sort of ice breaking for those adorable old folks!

Afterward, we spent about an hour plus talking and chatting and laugh while taking tour around the place.

The surroundings are so nice and relaxing.

Sitting on the floor after a long walk following that atok in yellow showing around his room and all.

He's pack with pantun riddles and jokes sia. Joyful atok ah this one.

This nenek over here shocked me a little. This is the neneks' room so I was just looking from the window. Then she said "Eh son come in come in have a seat."

Wow such fluent English, She's an educated grandma ok.

Here are the handcrafts she made for the purpose of hobby and selling. She got award once from the government for her amazing handcrafts.

This is Mr Exco Academic showing off playing checkers with this atok.

He's a pro, the atok.

Me: "Jom ambik gambar, peace sikit"

Atok: *grabs my arm*

I heard this atok from Rembau have a crush on Mrs Treasurer here HAHAHA

This atok right here is from Negeri Sembilan, he's in the bedridden room. Most of the bedriddens cant walk quite properly so we help them with lunch. This one here is so adorable asking me to eat first and all. Atok pls Im hungry but you need to eat (ofcourse not saying that out loud)

We also did some cleaning but I took no pictures.

Coming here I have the thought of my late grandma.

God bless their life.

Have a good day!

A step back.

Take a step back

away from reality

away from society

away from life

Stay and stare

as silent as it could get

as far as human's eyes are capable of

Lots of things happen around you

The birds are fooling in the sky

The leaves are dancing to the wind

The water flows on beat

The crickets singing melodies

Life's so beautiful

when you have the time

to step back and appreciate

-dideedayat

I did acupuncture!

Assalamualaikum!

Pagi tadi i went for acupuncture for sinus dooooooo! Sebenarnya my atok yang yang buat for glucoma but why not kan tag along hahahaha! Sakit sikit je weh serious. Atok dalam 20 jarum lah jugak hohoho mine was like 15. Kat muka dah 5 huehuehue kaki tangan pun kena sekali. Ni ha gambar gambar nya... 

P/S IM WEARING KAIN BATIK SEBAB JEANS TAKLEH NAK TARIK SAMPAI LUTUT HAHAHAHAHAHA AKA SEXY AF

Gambar muka takleh upload atas faktor kehodohan melampau dan lighting teruks. 

Tu je nak cerita! Bye....

-dideedayat

Strangers.

I miss talking to you.

I miss listening to your stories.

I miss hearing your voice.

I miss your jokes.

I miss your giggles.

I miss everything abt you. 

I really want to talk to you, text you.

But in the end, I know I'm gonna hurt myself.

Its such a horrible feeling.

So its better for us to be strangers.

I guess.

-dideedayat

Permanent.

No matter how many times you've tried.

You just can't forget them.

Tattooed to your thoughts.

Scarred to your souls.

Bounded to your hearts.

Reckless; you're tired.

They're permanent.

-dideedayat

Life.

It's life.

It's not going to be that easy nor that hard. 

Deep breathe and continue living. 

Smile and stay positive.

-dideedayat

You and I

You and me, we're bumper cars. The more I try to get to you, the more we crash apart. 

- Alex and Sierra

It has been awhile since we talked, and I'm not okay. Well you seem fine. So fine that nothing about me bothers you while everything about you just bothers me every way possible. Yes I do miss you. Yes I miss the way we used to talk. Yes I miss the sound of your voice. But every time you came across my mind, everything got blurry. Blurry enough to erase the positivity I had in mind. And the saddest part is there’s nothing I can do about it.

I used to wish that one day I’m going to wake up to a life where we never met. Too long I waited. I finally realised that we came across each other for a reason. You may be my saviour for the moment but never forever. You taught me that self-love is the most important thing before you love others. You taught me that even how sweet the journey was; nothing’s going to stay forever. You taught me not to fall too easily for someone that makes you feel special for only that particular moment. You and I are two lines that met once and never again. You are my past and I am yours.

We got to learn to let go of things, because some things are better thrown away than kept. I still miss us.

-dideedayat

New Phase.

Assalamualaikum!!

There I am, thinking, am I really in college? It has been 4 weeks since I registered. Time flies when you have fun. Yes it’s fun here. Although it was awkward at first, well the ice broke. Now everybody’s so crazy so hectic. I admit it is hard to make new friends, for me. But somehow I made tons. Tomorrow is the election for student council and I am super anxious. Yeap I’m elected for student council. I really want to be one, but it is now in the hands of the students either to vote me in or out. Wish me luck!

I’m having so much fun studying here. As a Foundation in Science and Tech (FiST) student, the teachings are quite fast. Keep it up hun before you lose it. Oh and yeah I’m currently studying in Kolej Mara Kuala Nerang Kedah for FiST UNiKL. So north-y hahaha.

Here are some pictures of my time here:

Group Minggu Silaturrahim

Homeroom T20 Hebat

Sir Sirhan pun layan selfie.

Geng Gila2

I’ll be coming home on the 9^th of July for Aidilfitri. One week holiday before Aidilfitri. So two weeks of holiday which is also our semester break. Hit me up if you’re free that week! Maybe we can buka puasa together or anything. Ok! See you soon.

Stay fabulous.

We did awful stuff - PWTC Book Fair

Assalamualaikum!!!

Tadi me and Acap and Anuar pergi PWTC book fair. Macam biasa budak budak SPM seperti mereka akan terus ke floor buku buku pelajaran ni. Aku jeling je lah kan dah habis SPM so tak perlu lah nak meroyan pilih nak beli buku bagus. Gitchew. So lepas teman dua budak sekolah tu, aku pergi cari booth MPH ya ampun rupanya dekat pintu masuk tadi. Gigih lah kitorang pergi balik. So aku beli buku buku yang demikian.

Buku WHERE SHE WENT ni sequel dari IF I STAY. Dia ada sampai sequel 5 tau. Lepas buku ni ada JUST ONE NIGHT, JUST ONE DAY, JUST ONE YEAR. Aku macam nak beli semua tapiiiiiii aku beli buku lain instead. Lepas habis yang ni baru aku beli lah.

Then buku THE BELL BETWEEN WORLDS ni Acap kata best sebab muka depan dia macam magic magic hahaha plus aku baca belakang dia pun not bad ah. Tebal tu tebal tapi aku baca sikit tadi boleh tahaaan aaahhh.

BETTER THAN PERFECT ni bukan buku magic magic ok. Kalau korang suka buku pasal life ke romantic ke, korang mesti suka buku ni haha. Seronok kannnn.

Then bila dah habis shopping buku, kitorang jalan lah turun pergi stesen Putra tu. Aku dah nak terkucil memang urgent lah pokoknya. Beli tiket tu aku cakap lah nak pergi toilet. BOLEH PULAK TRAIN TU SAMPAI!!!! DENGKI BETUL. Dah lah dekat seberang. Acap pun dengan yakin nya berlari naik tangga sampai terjatuh jatuh bukunya. Dah macam kena kejar setan dah tiga tiga. Ya Rabbi masuk koc depan sekali tu haas berdenyut segala urat nadi otak aku. Maka sekali lagi terduduk lah kami kat atas lantai KTM tersebut dengan penuh keyakinan. Hahaha disebab kan stesen berikutnya sampai KL Sentral tak ramai orang haha sampai KL Sentral baru bangun dan turun. 

Then kitorang singgah KL Sentral nak makan makan kat NU SENTRAL and menggedik nak bergambo dekat escalator lawa tu. Kebuluran. Belek punya belek benda alah floor plan tu. last last makan foodcourt sajoh. Minah dua orang tu seronok menyantap makanan Korea apa tah nama nya. Aku layan nasi putih ayam goreng mamak kuah campur. Nyum enak. Eh eh mekayu sangat kau nyah! Lepas tu kitorang bergossip lah kan perkara wajib tu. Lepas beli tiket KTM ke stesen rumah masing masing tu, singgah lah beli Chatime kejap. Pastu merempat dekat platform sebab baru terlepas train. Maka duduk lah 3 ekor ni tepi tiang dengan penuh santun. Lepas habis sambungan gossip food court tadi, train sampai. Semua gelabah hanjeng nak cari mana koc berhenti. Kekadang kan tengah seronok berebut beratur nak masuk koc, koc wanita yang berhenti depan korang. Toleh kiri kanan semua wanita. Korang pun terus blah buat taktau je haha. So dengan semangat je bawak Chatime masuk train YA AMPUN ADA PULAK ORANG KTM KAT DALAM TUUU. Aku pun terkial terkepit nak sorok Chatime size large tu. Masuk masuk terus dapat tempat duduk bawah sign 'no food and drinks allowed'. Train bergerak je kitorang tergelak tak cukup oxygen sebab dah terkial terkinja nak sorok air. Pastu semua senyap. Memang lengang habis. Tet tett tettt. Bunyi game sorang mamat ni memecah kesunyian. Dia punya khusyuk bermain tu sampai bercakap sorang sorang. Kitorang punya tergelak tu ya ampun pecah usus. Setelah lama ketawakan mamat tu, kembali sunyi. Orang keliling tu perati je mamat game tu. Beberapa minit lepas tu, kitorang bau kentut. Acap tanya ah Anuar dengan yakinnya "Kau kentut ke weh?" HAHAHA ANUAR SURUH SENYAP JE. LAGI LAH KITORANG TERBAHAK MACAM ORANG TAK BETUL KAT SITUUUU. Tapi dia kata dia tak kentut pun whatever ah kan. Kembali kepada mamat game tu, dah senyap tu. Then dia bukak casing phone dia, pasang lagu, letak kat telinga. DIA NYANYI PULAK HAHAHAHAHA. Tah lagu apa tah. Habis pecah buah pinggang usus besar kecik aku tahan gelak. Lama pulak tu weh. Dua tiga lagu lah jugak. Orang lain semua pandang je dia tu, dia macam jenis tak kesah gitu kan so haaaaaa. Orang lain dah tergedik gedik senyum sorang sorang. Beberapa stesen berlalu, dia stop. Dia turun stesen dia. Baru semua kembali tenang.

Tak baik sebenarnya kitorang gelakkan mamat tu. Tapi sebab kan enjin ketawa tu masih panas sejak naik train, maka terus start enjin terbahak terkekek. Sorry lah ye kalau terasa hati huhuhu. Rasa bersalah lah jugak bila dah turun tu. Haaa moral of the story, jangan ketawakan orang. The End.

Apa masalah kau?

Assalamualaikum!!

So lepas isyak tadi, family aku ajak pergi mall to repair my sister's laptop sebab dia macam tak boleh bukak. So jalan punya jalan sampai lah the gadget section. Bagi laptop my sister tu, abang kedai tu on selamber je. Harus lah aku terbakar. Kenapa tetibe boleh on?! Alang alang sampai section paling fave semua orang, pusing pusing dulu. My dad decided nak beli CPU baru. So okay layan je lah teman dia beli that CPU. Tapi uncle tu cakap kena upgrade some stuff kan dia kata dalam 40 minit siap. Perut aku pun dah lapar. Kitorang turun makan dekat kedai bawah tu kat luar mall. 

After around 40 minit (kot), my dad suruh aku and my sister pergi bayar and pick up the CPU. Dia bagi duit semua lah ofcourse, aku ni pokai af dah. So aku jalan macam fabulously lah kan hadumak biasa lah aku haha. Pastu selisih dengan dua lelaki ni. Yang aku panas nya kalau selisih saja takpe. Tau tak dia cakap apa?! "Jale tu molek gak abe" (Translate: Jalan elok elok sikit lah bang)

Aku dah panas. Aku dah panas. Aku macam dah tak boleh tahan. "KAU INGAT MUKA KAU CHANTEK KE WEH DAH MACAM TONG SAMPAH TEPI LONGKANG DAH AKU TENGOK BODOH". Yes I said that. And semua orang macam pandang haha malu gila sekejap tapi so what. Apa masalah tah dah lah muka macam haa malas nak cakap. Indon lagi kacak. Tong sampah lagi wangi. Longkang lagi bersih. Ha imagine. Sakai. Sorry kalau nak complain kenapa mulut aku longkang, tolong tengok balik macam mana perangai kau. Dua ekor tu pandang je turun escalator. Aku jeling je lah. Kesah pulak haku. 

Nobody actually kesah on how you look. Nobody cares. Tapi kalau perangai ala longkang Chow Kit. Tu yang buat orang judge rupa kau. Kalau kau tak cari pasal, orang takkan judge rupa. Kecuali orang tu perasan chantek. Jaga perangai tu bang. Hidup tak lama. Kalau aku jalan macam mana pun, bukan kau penat bukan kau yang lenguh. 

Sekian cerita pasal abang dua orang yang rasa diri dah bagus sangat :)

Chedah over and out.

We're graduating :)

Assalamualaikum!!!

Yup so i graduated high school. After years years of sekolah. I finally graduated. Lepas ni masuk Uni pulak. Im so gonna miss school. Teachers and friends ofcourse. Lepas ni we're gonna go on seperate ways, our choice. Make a good on for yourself. Here are some pickchurse from graduation day.

5 Ikhlas in memories.

So dukacita dimaklum SPM tak jadi tangguh do the first paper will be on 3rd November and habis on 25th November for my stream. I hope you readers (kalau ada) tolong doakan for my best on SPM for 11A+. Halalkan everything between us. Lain macam bunyi dia tu.

Also for my friends, study smart. Kawal emosi elok elok. Banyakkan berdoa, InsyaAllah Allah tolong. Lepas usaha, jangan lupa tawakkal. Kekuatan kita bukan kekuatan kita, tapi kekuatan Allah. All the best peeps.

Once said. 

SPM bukan segalanya. Tapi segalanya bermula dengan SPM. 

See you guys next month. Bye.

Chedah over and out.

School's politic?

Assalamualaikum!
Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaiii semua!

So Dayat ada dapat satu request yang rare gittew. Tengok ni.

How to be famous at school. 

Dayat macam taktau nak jawab apa tapi lets give it a try. Maybe persoalan dia bukan how to be famous tapi how to be known by people. Macam takde tau sebenarnya istilah famous kat sekolah ni. Sebab itu sekolah, hampir semua orang kenal semua orang. Its more tu pengaruh. For example, when you have the pengaruh from cikgu cikgu and students especially. Senang hidup kat sekolah. Tercalon untuk jawatan tertinggi every kelab persatuan sukan unit beruniform semua benda alah tu for example. Cikgu pun senang nak mintak tolong ini tolong itu. Calonkan for anything or even terpilih untuk wakil sekolah. Lagi lagi as a senior, myself. Bukan nak brag or anything tapi the good thing is kita dapat pengaruh juniors untuk calonkan for almost everything. And ada banyak lagi kelebihan. So survival tips at school. (WALAUPUN INTRO MACAM MENGARUT PLEASE LEAVE KALAU MALAS NAK BACA HEHE)

Ini apa yang Dayat faham from soalan dia. How to be that^ .

1. Be yourself (most important)

Be yourself ni jangan cuba jadi orang lain. Eh dia tu cantik lah, so kena jalan macam dia, kena cakap macam dia, kena gelak sopan macam dia. Motif? Kalau keep going the whole day tiru orang. Tak penat ke? Dah lah penat, nampak sangat pulak tu kepalsuan identitinya. Kita sendiri pun kita menyampah tengok orang yang mengikut ikut menjadi sepalsu mungkin. So yeah, cuba jadi diri sendiri. Ada sebab kenapa kita dilahirkan berbeza. Sebab kita special in our own way :)

2. Be noticable. 

Noticable bukan nya kena menggedik gelak macam orang kurang bijak tu. Maksudnya kita kena berani and tonjolkan diri. Kalau dah cikgu cari volunteer, korang menyorok dalam lubang cacing, siapa yang kenal korang betul tak? Volunteer for anything. Even angkat barang cikgu. Other than that, jangan hide your talent. If you can speak, masuk syarahan or debate or anything involve talking. If you can sing, nasyid ke. If you can anything, masuk anything. I know 'cakap senanglah' but you have to try. 

3. Be friendly.

Smile. Jumpa anyone, smile. Jumpa aunty uncle cleaner, smile. Jumpa cikgu, smile. Jumpa kawan, smile. Smile for everything. Kalau pagi pagi 7.30 setengah pun muka macam puaka je masuk sekolah siapa nak tegur. Lagi lagi kalau pagi isnin tu kan. Walaupun otak seghabut sangat, senyum je. Stay positive. Semua masalah boleh settle if you stay positive meh. What you give you get back. So orang pun akan boleh ngam dengan kita. Ni tidak. Kalau orang tegur Ya Rabb sombongnya. Muka puaka tu jangan tunjuk in public. Cikgu pun akan senang dengan kita. Dia mesti akan ingat kita punyalah kalau kita senyum je memanjang. Tegur tanya khabar, bagi salam, senyum. Yang muda tegur yang tua. Yang tua tegur yang muda. Apa salahnya. 

Some of tips yang Dayat boleh bagi to survive school dengan success after berapa tahun sekolah. Merepek sikit sebab tengah rehat from studying. So its my senior year dah. And SPM tinggal beberapa ratus jam je lagi ni. So mintak tolong jasa baik doakan Dayat and my friends. 11A+ and may Allah ease. I wish you all the best for SPM friends. And for the others, semoga korang pun berjaya in anything you guys are facing. Honestly, its kinda sad nak tinggalkan sekolah. Bye!

Chedah over and out.

Look around.

Assalamualaikum!

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaiii semua!

Macam biasa hari sekolah, woke up early for school, get ready, and study. One thing yang every student suka at school is when cikgu tak datang. Yup. Tak payah tipu. Since cikgu tak datang, Dayat pergi computer lab for some editing of school magazine. Tengah tengah khusyuk meng-edit ni tetibe datang sorang of my crews (gittew), dia datang and tunjuk one karya yang dia dapat from a form 5 student. I was shocked.

Macam ternangis sikit baca karya tu. It was in english, aih so beautiful. It was a poem written from the deepest of heart. Dalam poem tu, he kinda let it all out. 

How he was treated so different. People called him a geek and stuff. He was bullied mentally and emotionally. He got depressed. I felt different. Dayat kenal this guy. And Dayat tak pernah nampak this side of him. I'm sorry. He's a very lovely guy. Suka buat orang gelak. Buat lawak walaupun lawak kurang pandai but still lawak. And he made lots laughed. 

Quote:

The loneliest people are the kindest. 

The saddest people smile the brightest. 

The most damaged people are the wisest.

All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do.

Guess its true. Society makes us blind. Blind of whats important. Society makes us see only the fake side of people. Imagine kita hidup berpuluh tahun and kenal beratus orang tapi kita tak pernah tahu, siapa yang sakit. Sakit hidup sendiri. Sakit penempuh dugaan. Walaupun nampak diorang ni gembira je memanjang. Ambik sikit masa untuk tanya khabar ke tanya anything. Tegur bila nampak dia sorang sorang. Wish dia good morning or good night. Kita taktau if he/she is having a bad night or a bad day. Who knows kalau kita tegur tu boleh cheer up his/her whole day. Or maybe smile. Kalau dah susah sangat nak tegur. Senyum.

Trust me. You can make a difference. 

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make difference.

They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.

-Barbara de Angelis

Chedah over and out.

Tuhan;

Tuhan,

Kau tabahkan

Kau kuatkan

Hati ketakutan

Hati celaruan

Tuhan,

Kau singkirkan

Kau hapuskan

Hasad bingkisan

Hasad hasutan

Tuhan,

Perbetulkanlah hambaMu ini.

Bisa.

Kadang kala bila aku rasa sunyi,

Aku cari kau.

Kadang kala bila aku rasa sedih,

Aku perlukan kau

Kadang kala bila aku gembira,

Aku kongsi juga dengan kau--

Dengan harapan

Kau jadi pengubat luka;

Malang baru aku sedar

Kau sebenarnya bisa.

You are somebody's reason to smile.

Things will get back, but you just have to have faith that they will get better. Until then, dance, sing, and laugh like there is no tomorrow. You are beautiful. Never forget that.

You don't need a boyfriend to feel loved. You don't need cool clothes to be noticed. You don't need to impress to feel special. Just remember: you are you and that's all that matters.

In life you're going to be left out, talked about, lied to, & used, but you have to decide who's worth your tears & who's not.

You are somebody's reason to smile.

Andai ;

andai suatu hari nanti,

degup jantungku,

denyut nadiku,

tiada lagi.

ketahuilah,

salah silapmu,

sudahku maafkan,

senyum tawamu,

akanku rindukan.

parents dan remaja

Assalamualaikum!

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaai semua

Dayat kembali okay tau okay eh okay tau?

So petang tadi lepas solat zohor, takde tuition petang kat sekolah. So waktu lunch Dayat duduk lah bersembang dengan kawan kawan lah kan. Hu ha hu ha bergossip sambil makan. Lepas tu tah macam mana tah masuk lah bab parents. Jeng! Kitorang dengan asyik nya berkongsi lah kan story mory pasal parents masing masing and how they roll. Gittew. Turn out tak semua parents ni sama, obviously lah kan. Ada jenis yang memang control habis. Ada jenis yang terus lepas. Ada jenis yang sayang sayang jugak. My parents Alhamdulillah jenis yang faham perasaan jiwa raga as teenagers. Diorang kasi keluar dengan kawan kawan and stuff liddat. Tapi ada lah nasihat hujung hujung tu tanda sayang haha.

Ha ni ada cerita. Sorang manusia ni parents dia. Dia anak bongsu and dia ada abang dah kerja dah kawin dah pun dan ada anak lagi (kot). So parents dia jenis macam rasa dia ni tak boleh itu tak boleh ini maklum lah anak bongsu ni dengan siapa lagi nak manja manja. Sorry to say tapi bila manusia ni macam memprotes so dalam hati manusia ni akan sentiasa rasa macam "apa mak aku ni". Kadang kita kena pandang apa seseorang tu buat dari sudut pandangan lain. Ada kala kita rasa dikongkong tapi sebenarnya dia terlalu sayang. Hal ni kita takleh lah nak salah kan manusia ni saja kan. Memang lah sebagai remaja ni rasa nak berseronok nak enjoy je rasa nak bebaaaas, mungkin dalam diam kita tak tau parents kita takut kita membesar takut rindu ha gitu ayat. Atau maybe parents kita masih nak bermanja dengan anak dia yang dulu kan kalau sekarang ni dah lain. Faham kan. Parents pun kadang kena fikir umur anak tu takkan sama sampai hujung dunia. Parents pun kena adapt lah dengan umur si anak. Mungkin ada yang pernah dengar ada yang tak pernah.

Anak berusia 1 hingga 7 tahun perlu dididik secara bergurau dan jangan dipukul.

Anak berusia 8 hingga 14 tahun, sebaiknya didik mereka dengan disiplin, tunjuk ajar dan kasih sayang.

Peringkat remaja iaitu 15 hingga 21 tahun, anak harus dididik macam kawan, jangan dirotan dan dimarah. Sebaliknya, peluk, pujuk dan nasihati mereka.

Selepas usia 21 tahun, parents perlu memberi kebebasan anak membuat keputusan dan tindakan.

Peringkat usia 10 hingga 19 tahun ni masa yang paling kritikal sebab remaja akan mengalami pelbagai perubahan dan perkembangan termasuk lah jugak perubahan fizikal, mental, psikologi, emosi dan sosial.

‘‘Pada peringkat usia ini mereka akan menghadapi pelbagai persoalan yang menekan jiwa. Ketika ini jugalah proses mencari dan membentuk identiti, perubahan fizikal pada tubuh badan, perasaan yang bercelaru dan keinginan untuk dihargai boleh menyebabkan berlaku tekanan jiwa,’’

‘‘Remaja di peringkat ini bukan sahaja boleh berdikari tanpa ibu bapa, tetapi juga daya fikiran dan imaginasi digunakan untuk kepentingan pelajaran dan kerjaya,’’

Kat peringkat remaja ni jugak lah, sememangnya memerlukan perhatian dan tumpuan. Parents perlu sentiasa atau mempunyai ruang untuk mendekati dan mendampingi anak remaja mereka.

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Terdapat empat gaya keibubapaan yang menjadi amalan ibu bapa hari ini tanpa disedari amat mempengaruhi seorang anak itu.

Empat jenis yang dimaksudkan, jenis A Autoritarian (tinggi kawalan, rendah kasih sayang), jenis B-Permisif (rendah kawalan, tinggi kasih sayang), jenis C-Pengabaian (rendah kawalan, rendah kasih sayang ) dan jenis D-Autoritatif (tinggi kawalan, tinggi kasih sayang)

Korang sendiri boleh nilai mana satu parents korang kan. Parents yang jenis D untuk didik anak merupakan parents yang seimbang memberi sepenuh perhatian terhadap keperluan anak dan meletakkan batasan yang jelas terhadap tingkah laku anak-anak. Ibu bapa ini membuat keputusan berdasarkan keperluan, bukan keinginan atau nafsu anak-anak. Keluar dengan kawan itu keperluan lah serious. Macam parents Dayat! Thankyou Baba Mama xoxo

So kesimpulannya, macam mana pun parents korang, ketahui lah diorang buat sebab sayang, kalau tak sayang korang dari dulu dia buang je korang haaa sentap. Hargai selagi mereka masih ada. 

Chedah over and out.

Sumber: http://z15.invisionfree.com/choppersgarage/ar/t896.htm

they have feelings too

You gave me flowers but then you released the bees. 

You gave me treats but then you released the traps. 

You gave me hope but then you left me hanging. 

You talked like bestfriends but then you backstabbed me. 

Could you please sekali je just treat people well. They have feelings too you know. Depan dia punya lah kau seronok borak borak gelak gelak tapi bila dia blah kau kutuk belakang belakang hina dia. Pengecut much? Asal tak cakap depan depan? Acah je lah kau ni. Pastu dah cakap belakang, sampai orang tu sendiri tahu. Pastu ofcourse dia kecik hati, punya lah baik kau layan dia, selfie sama sama, then kau tikam dia mati matian. Pastu kononnya dia taktau, kau pura pura lagi layan dia. Kalau tak suka cakap tak suka. Kau tak penat ke weh nak pretend je sepanjang masa. Cakap ah kau tak suka dia terus. Maybe it will hurt tapi tak sesakit kau tikam belakang dia. And ofcourse eventually dia akan okay rather then backstabbed. Kau layan dia baik, kau hina dia, dalam masa yang sama. Menyusahkan diri sendiri. Bagitau je dia kalau tak suka, dia boleh cari orang lain. Your kind of human is not worth keeping anyway. 

Untuk sesiapa yang terluka sebab manusia tak berapa nak berguna;

"Put your head up high, middle finger higher" -Ritzo

Enaff sed. Chedah over and out.